We all have our favorite comfort food, our favorite thing or act we do when we need to feel whole and secure again. I have one too, I stumbled into by chance, and one day thanks to these advent in technology I found an old recording of Asa Di Vaar that had been sung in the 60’s. It was this recording of the asa di vaar that immediately transports me to my grandfather. He used to listen to it on his radio when I was growing up. One of the things that comes back immediately is his embrace, his bukkal that was for me without any judgment, all embracing accepting for me.